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I'm thinking....

I need help with something.
Why when something doesn’t go our way, or work in our favor do we immediately search for an inherent deficit in ourselves that is the reason?
Why do we do this to ourselves?
And I am not just talking about myself.I am speaking about most women that I know.I am speaking about my 11 year old daughter who is already blaming herself for things beyond her control.  I am talking about the beautiful friends I have who think that if they just change something in themselves, that bad things will cease to happen.  I am talking about women, men, and kids....
Why do we do this?Why do I?Why do you?
Wouldn’t it be freeing to just accept that sometimes things don’t work out in our favor.This isn’t the universe working against us.This isn’t because we are fat, or ugly, or thin, or stupid.It just IS…what it IS.Sometimes things will come in their own time, and sometimes they won't.   But it sure as hell isn't our fault all the time.  There are forces at work in this…